Shout out to all my Gossipers!

so. here it is. my first blog post… when trying to figure out how to start it out, i thought why not express my feeling towards all the gossips!!! “they deserve the hottest part of hell!”… well. dont we all… none of us are sinless. but thats another post for another time. now i am going to focus on gossiping. what is gossiping?
according to Urban Dictionary, it is:

“Exaggeration or fabrication of a story, regarding somebody other than the tale bearer, in the absence of this person who is being discussed – for the malicious purpose of demeaning, slandering or tarnishing this person’s reputation.”

hmm… that sounds really positive…
let me start off by saying, i have been personally attacked by gossip, and let me also say, that i have been a gossiper before. we all have! dont lie to yourself and say you havent either.

Gossip hurts. I dont care who you are. 80% of the time, gossiping is false. it is spread rumors, and we all know rumors spread quickly and evolve even quicker. gossiping is a form of bullying. when we say something, for the main purpose of bringing someone’s reputation down, it is bullying. sticks and stones break bones, and words cut like knives, leaving scars that can’t always be healed. Last year i had the hardest time of my life, and it involved gossip. i was gossiping about this person, they were gossiping about me, back and forth.. and truthfully. no one won. nobody found themselves on top. you know why? because talking bad about someone to make yourself feel better, will in the end make you feel terrible. you wont feel good about yourself. that is if you have any heart at all…
when someone gossips, they are hurting themselves along with the person they are spreading lies about. they are tarnishing their own reputations, and losing the respect of others as they open their hateful mouth. Like i said, i have gossiped before. I ruined a girl and a guys relationship because of my mouth. Now they wouldnt have lasted anyway… BUT thats not the point!

point is… stop! stop before you speak. think:

1. is this positive or negative?
2. WOULD I WANT SOMEONE SAYING THIS ABOUT ME?
3. is this 100% truth? (even if it is true… that doesnt mean spread it around.)

if its true, that doesnt give you the right to spread it around, because in all honesty, ITS NONE OF YOUR DANG BUSINESS! who cares that Tiffany and Sarah got in a fight because of John… *yes those names are completely made up…* who cares that Quinton denies its his baby… i mean… we should care for the baby… but! what im saying is. shut up. leave people and their business alone. focus on yourself and what you need to fix in your own life! because when people see you focusing on other peoples mistakes and failures or maybe your jealousy because of their success, it makes you look like an idiot, because you are so miserable with yourself, you have to make others miserable too.

 

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